The beautiful and tragic story of Gia Carangi

The story of Gia Maria Carangi is one that has fascinated people since the 1980s. How one beautiful young woman from Philly could soar so high and fall so fast is a source of interest, complexity and unexplained tragedy for many, including me.

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Many will know her from the movie Gia, the 1998 depiction of her life starring Angelina Jolie. It’s a great movie, although, since I was old enough to have lived through the entirety of the 80s, I first heard about her story way back then. When Gia died in 1986, I was 12 years old, a time when I was just getting interested in fashion magazines like Cosmopolitan and Glamour.

Due to my age, most of what I remember was the aftermath. Gia had been one of the most famous models in the industry for a short time before suddenly falling into obscurity. It was only upon reports of her death that details of the last few years of her life began to surface–reports of some of the worst things that could happen to a person: drugs, addiction, poverty, desperation, rape, isolation, loneliness and AIDS. It all seemed too perplexing to be true. But it was. How could this happen to a star who had once shined so bright?

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There was something else I remember: the harsh judgment. I grew up in a cult-like religion and Gia’s story quickly came to be used as a cautionary tail. See what happens to young women when they choose the wrong path! I was conflicted and confused, as I often was back then, about what I was told and what I believed in my head. Where was the compassion?

Fast forward, just for a moment, to more than two decades later. In the years just prior to Amy Winehouse’s untimely death, most of what I remember was, again: the harsh judgment. The condemnation, the ridicule, the jokes, the dehumanization. It made me sick! It’s a sad part of life that there will always be people who enjoy kicking people while they are down.

Back to Gia, when I was first coming to terms with my BPD diagnosis I got rather obsessed with learning more about her story. I watched or read what little there was to watch or read; besides the movie and all her incredible modeling photos there wasn’t that much info about her in 2012. There was just enough, though, to get a hazy picture of the woman Gia once was.


Now, I absolutely do not have the audacity to diagnose anyone, yet there were so many elements to Gia’s story that were classic signs of BPD: An intense and irrational fear of rejection and abandonment, rapid changes in mood, issues with identity (was she a famous model or was she a tough street chick, did people truly love her or did they only love her for her fame? If she was so comfortable with her sexual preference, why couldn’t everyone else be?) Who was there to help her figure all these things out? Would it have helped?

In the case of Amy Winehouse, it seemed that help was often extended, but was not taken. Even in Gia’s case, with what little information there was, it did seem that there were people who were trying to help in whatever way they could. It can be perplexing for those on the outside to understand why their attempts to help don’t always work.

The one thing I can offer here is that when your mind is not healthy it can be next to impossible to think logically. I was going to write more about the difficulties people with BPD face when dealing with offers of help but realized it was far too dense of a topic to discuss here. One for a near-future post, to be sure.

Thanks for reading and good health!

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21 thoughts on “The beautiful and tragic story of Gia Carangi

  1. JoAnn briniging the 1-of-a-kind-mind-catrching story of Gia Carangi on stage demonstrates how creative and innovative Ms. JoAnn is and her presentment and representment of the story deserves to go viral from 100%-to-360-degrees!

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  2. Every person has their ups and downs in life and some have tragic endings,
    but others must learn fromthe tragic experiences of life and know that kindness,
    love and respect of self and others arewhat make life worth living.

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    1. Oh I’m sorry to hear that. Hopefully your son has been able find some healthy coping strategies and healing methods. I know it’s not easy at all! Thanks for visiting, all the best!

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  3. Much has been written, and I certainly will add nothing useful here, about the public spotlight’s sear. Tales surface constantly detailing how it disturbs, distorts and, all too often, destroys, even the (seemingly) well-grounded.

    Then, impose the burden on someone fragile, whose mind already swirls with conflict, and the strain nearly invariably is unsustainable. Stories similar to Gia’s are distressingly common. Worse yet, if that can be imagined, most of these trials play out in anonymity, deprived even of an A-list actress’s attention decades later.

    Millions have pursued fame and fortune over the years, yet few find them, and far fewer still are prepared to pay the price they impose. For too many, the cost is mortal.

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    1. Fame is definitely a double edged sword. Living in the spotlight is a lot more difficult than people think. Constant attention isn’t good without a strong will and sense of self.

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  4. Oh, JoAnn, how can people be so judgemental? Thankfully the world is opening up and people are becoming more aware and hopefully less judgemental. However, as we know, there’s still much to be done in making people aware of mental illness and the stigma attached to it.

    “You can’t understand someone until you’ve walked a mile in their shoes.” The person who first person who muttered this American saying is lost to history. The fact that it’s so well known is a good indication of the importance of empathy in living a meaningful life.

    Looking forward to that post….. 🙂 Caz x

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    1. Yes, hopefully things will keep getting better when it comes to how people with mental illness or addiction problems are viewed. One can only hope that it will also become less socially acceptable to ridicule such people in a public way. 😕

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